HER Lesbian, bi & queer dating

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About this app

Join over 13 million+ lesbian, bisexual, trans+, and queer people on HER - the world's most loved dating app & platform for the LGBTQIA+ community. We believe that everyone has the right to love and be loved, find friends, and form meaningful relationships within the LGBTQIA+ community.

šŸ’œ OUR STORY: BUILT BY AND FOR THE COMMUNITY
HER started as a lesbian dating app built by and for lesbian & queer women. We evolved into an LGBTQIA+ platform for all colors of the rainbow. We are proud to say that now we are more than the 'swipe right' lesbian dating app. We want to be the best LGBTQ platform, and we are working hard to make it happen.

šŸŽ‰ WHAT YOU’LL FIND ON HER
ā¤ļø Dating – Experience the best online lesbian dating community & meet queer folks from all over the world.
ā¤ļø LGBTQ+ News Feed – Share the most urgent and fantastic news about the LGBTQ+ community.
ā¤ļø Communities – Join smaller community group chats based on interests or hobbies.

PACKED WITH FEATURES
At its heart, HER is a free dating app for lesbians and LGBTQ+ people. All the app's core features are entirely free, so finding your person or your community is accessible for everyone. With the free app version, you can view profiles, start chats, view events, and join communities.

There's also a paid subscription offering even more great features.
– Ad-free experience
– See who's online in real-time
– Additional search filters
– Incognito mode
– And many more!

FIND LOVE, FRIENDS & COMMUNITY
Download HER to join a community of people who believe in LGBTQ+ equality and empowerment. Whether you're here for a girlfriend or partner, someone for a great date, or your next friendship group, the HER community is a welcoming and supportive one.

HER is a place where you can be authentic, whether you're lesbian, bi, queer, non-binary, trans, or gender non-conforming. It's your safe harbor where everyone can be their true self.

🌟 MORE THAN JUST DATING
Whether you're looking for someone special to date or just hoping to meet new people who understand your journey, our platform is here to help. We’re proud to provide a safe space for the LGBT community, where connections go beyond just romance. You can easily meet like-minded individuals, whether you're attending an online event, joining a discussion group, or simply browsing profiles. In every corner of the app, you'll find features designed to bring LGBT voices to the forefront.

FRIENDSHIPS THAT MATTER
"Making a genuine friend can be just as meaningful as finding a partner. That’s why we make it easy to reach out, chat, and form friendships rooted in shared experiences. The mission is to help you meet people who feel like home—whether it’s a future partner or a lifelong friend. We’re committed to supporting the LGBT community through inclusive tools that encourage real connection, not just swipes.

šŸ³ļøā€šŸŒˆ EVERYONE’S WELCOME
HER is a safe and inclusive place to date and chat for all queer people. While it started as a lesbian dating app, it has evolved into a platform for LGBTQIA+ people. Cis women, trans women, trans men, non-binary people, and gender non-conforming people are all welcome. Share your story, discover local events, join the community and live your best life!

HER is somewhere that all the other colors of the rainbow can unite.

ā¤ļø Find out more: ā¤ļø
https://weareher.com/
@hersocialapp
LGBT Dating: Chat with lesbian, bisexual, non-binary, trans, queer & gay women
Updated on
Sep 28, 2026

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region, and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
  • This app may share these data types with third parties
    Personal info, Financial info and 2 others
  • This app may collect these data types
    Location, Personal info and 6 others
  • Data is encrypted in transit
  • You can request that data be deleted

Ratings and reviews

73.3K reviews
Ali Davis
February 11, 2026
Unbelievably buggy. It was almost impossible to even get my profile up. The app skipped around and didn't let me finish setting my photos. I'm updating a few minutes later and knocking it down to one star. The onboarding is so bad it's bananas. I answered questions thoughtfully and there is literally no way to submit them. It says I can skip the question or add them to my profile later. There is no option to just add them. And I still can't get pictures to stick. How is THIS the big app?
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Kit Van Tassell
February 3, 2025
The idea of getting into a dating app was honestly a bit distressing for me, but this one has turned out to be really good! I feel comfortable and don't dread opening messages or making matches like I do on other apps. People on here seem to care about what you are looking for, even if it's "just" friends, and I haven't encountered anyone creepy. I definitely recommend it!
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HER App
February 4, 2025
This fills our queer hearts with joy and feels. Thanks for the feedback, Kit!🌈
Anna Supes Ramm
May 27, 2025
Pretty basic dating app interface, though I do like that it's geared exclusively toward sapphic folks. One downside is that the bio text limit is pretty short. Also, some features like communities are not very intuitive... and there doesn't seem to be any content monitoring to make sure people don't spam communities with off-topic posts. The breakout feature WOULD have been the friend request option -- BUT I CAN'T GET IT TO WORK. It doesn't appear for me at all. What do I do???
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HER App
May 27, 2025
Thanks for sharing your honest feedback. We totally understand that removing Friend Requests can feel like a big change, especially if it’s been a go-to way for you to connect. Your feedback means a lot to us, and we’ll definitely pass it along to the team as we keep working to make HER the best it can be.